All mothers in the world, from the moment they become pregnant, become authentic lionesses that protect their young so that they do not lack anything and are healthy and safe. This inner feeling is so powerful that at times, it can even cause some anxiety when fears appear in the subconscious and they believe that perhaps they are not doing as well as they should …
Many mothers feel an immense feeling of guilt pressing against their chest every night before going to sleep; “Am I doing it right?”, “Was I wrong to scold my son this morning?”, “Maybe I should have controlled myself”, “Next time I don’t want to yell at them …”, “I wish I could have gotten more money this month to offer more to my family ”… These are some of the common thoughts that can go through the mind of any mother before going to bed.
They are thoughts that do not allow a good rest, that make you feel bad … and if you do not rest, you cannot perform well, you will be more irascible and irritable with your family and everything will turn into a bigger and bigger snowball … and in the end you will end up suffocating in it! That is why it is so important to become truly aware of the type of mother you are and, above all, to understand that there is a word that defines you when it comes to raising your children: warrior.
Sleep mom, because today you did well and tomorrow you will do better. Yes, you may have been wrong about something, but that doesn’t make you a bad mother … that makes you human. It is normal that you make mistakes but the secret is that you are aware of these possible errors and that the next day you take them into account to be able to do it even better than you already do.
At night, you must rest to be able to offer your family the best version of yourself every day, and of course, to be able to have the necessary strength to also take care of yourself. For your children, you will always be the best mother that exists in the whole planet because you are that woman who gives them security, shelter, affection, unconditional love, who spends all your energy every day to offer them everything they need in their life … And although you’re really tired, you give them your best smile.
You are that mother who fights for her children, you are that warrior who will always do whatever it takes for your family to be united. Because yes, sometimes you can have certain feelings of guilt, but make sure they are momentary feelings that only serve you to look at what is happening in your life from perspective and find the solutions that you think are appropriate to be better and educate your children from the beginning. love and mutual respect.
Dad, you too are on the front line of battle
If mom is a warrior, dad is another warrior! Parents are also on the front lines of the battle to make a family cohesive. They also fight against fatigue, sleep and society in order to enjoy their family and life in general. Dad, you too should sleep peacefully because your children also need a happy father, strong and with that wonderful smile that brings them so much emotional well-being … at any age.